For stepmothers who may be struggling with stress or depression and for stepparents who have lost all hope of being happy or at peace in their stepfamily, my RemarriageWorks.com radio show, "RemarriageWorks: Stepmom's Prerogative, Changing Mindset" on January 2 featured a special guest, Mindset Coach and author of Life As An Onion: The Journey Back to Your Core, Renee Canali. During the interview, Renee made some great offers to help those of you who are looking to step into 2012 with a fresh perspective in your stepfamily life. Now Renee is offering even more tools to help you at no cost! Renee Canali and I explored how our stepchildren reflect back to us what we need to change or adopt in our relationship with them, and she shared some exercises to help you shift your mindset and help you think about you and your role in your stepfamily from a different perspective.
During the call, Renee graciously offered a FREE 30 minute coaching consultation by phone, and for those who buy her book, Life As An Onion: The Journey Back to Your Core she offered her free report.
Now it gets even better than that! I invite you to listen to the show and take advantage of Renee's valuable offer, including a coaching consultation at no cost from Renee. Plus, for those who leave feedback in the comment section under the podcast or right here (below) in this very blog, you will receive a complimentary downloadable pdf copy of Renee's ebook, Your Greatest Asset is Your Mindset, based on a presentation she gave at the National Institutes of Health.
If you've been wanting to feel better, improve your stepparenting, and/or look at things in your stepfamily in a positive way, I hope you take advantage of this! I've personally been a client of Renee's, and it has made a tremendous difference in my life. (By the way, I am NOT being paid for this endorsement.) I want more stepmoms and stepdads (or even future stepmothers and stepfathers) to know about a resource which can help them work through some challenging stepparenting times. It's free. Why not give it a shot?
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to keep our family together?
more depleted you allow yourself to get, the less of you there will be to share. Try these steps: 1. Write down your uncensored thoughts about a given situation. (The Journal for StepMoms is an inspiring and encouraging place to do this). 2. Let it be for
a day or so. Then go back and read what you wrote. • If your stepchildren heard you say what you wrote, how would they feel? • Take a minute or two to reflect on one thing you could handle differently. 3. Give yourself credit for every little change you make,
every word of understanding and encouragement you give. 4. Give to others what you so desperately want for yourself. If you want to be first in your relationship with your husband, make a practice of putting him first. The strength you have demonstrated these
last 7 years can go three ways: It can diminish as your attention is given to the ex-wife’s behaviors. It can increase as you turn your focus towards that which you want. It can remain tenuous and strained as you attempt to hold everything together. Nothing
is predestined: The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings. Ralph Blum